Saturday, November 15, 2008
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It is my belief that part of it comes with having health problems and turning forty all at once. There are also other reasons that perhaps you are keeping locked up somewhere - gone but not forgotten maybe??? Once you are working and have a routine and can resolve issues in your life and are feeling better, your emotions may follow......keep your head up my friend.
Dear Anonymous I am sure that being ill and turning 40 did not help my realization that I was 40. Perhaps there are reasons that I have locked up, missing pieces of a puzzle. But the question is do I want to forgive and remember to finish the puzzle or forget and leave it undone?
Well, the thing is....I guess you have to consider two very important things about forgiveness and puzzles. First, do you feel like someone did something to you?? You must really understand why you would be forgiving the other........what if that person never did anything intentionally....also, what if the other person felt wronged by you in some way but forgave that wrong doing almost instantly.....second, puzzles can be tricky as we all know. Some puzzles don't seem complete even after the last piece is put into place, sometimes we are frustrated by not finding the last piece and sometimes when we have done the best we can with it, even if it is not quite the way it seems that it should be we can leave it behind us or appreciate it for what it is.
Sometimes it is hard to forgive when you don't understand why the person did what they did. I know that goes both ways and can help solve the puzzle.
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